Monday, June 18, 2007

Positive v Negative People

Optimism is synonymous with positive mood and good morale. It is also linked to successes in athletic, academic, career, business, better health and lasting relationships. And further more, positive individuals are much more attractive to people than negative people!

Negative people tend to react strongly to stressful events, sometimes by denying that stress is bothering them. Negative people tend to react strongly to stressful events, sometimes by denying that stress is bothering them. Moreover negative or pessimistic people tend to avoid dealing with their negative situations and they give up more easily when problems or difficulties arise.

Positive people are also much more stress resistant. They are perseverant and they don’t give up easily. And it is in this way that they seem to get closer to their dream or passion each step of the way. Medical research has shown that positive people have better health and they age well. All in all, when you are not such a positive and optimistic person, there is every reason to learn to become one. Remember it is all a matter of choice!

Let’s get back on track! Focus a clear positive goal ahead of you and challenge yourself to see difficult situations as opportunities, instead of allowing them to bring you down. Together, we shall see each other at the top

Thursday, June 14, 2007

Overcoming doubts in your mind

Doubts can quickly swallow a person's new found belief and faith. When doubt sets into his mind, the defence to fight against this enemy will determination how strong this person is mentally. If he is strong and has such impregnable faith, he will be fine but if the belief is weak in foundation, a shaky ground will allow doubt to devour the building in a short while and this may result in serious consequences.

Our mind starts racing and starts drawing conclusions and ideas from anywhere and everywhere. The majority of the time we have no idea if there is even validity in our thoughts, but we keep letting them work in our minds anyway. For example, many people doubt about Marie Callas' ability as a clairvoyant and whether she is able to promise what she has said.

To overcome doubt, first, we need to set our mind on hope. Hope is a feeling of what is wanted will happen, a desire accompanied by expectation, or to want. Once hopeful thoughts begin to enter our minds, anything can happen. Our perceptions and attitudes begin to change and we start to see the world, our selves, our friends, and our family differently. We are no longer confused and unfocused by thoughts of “What if” or doubt, but thoughts of possibility.

Lastly, moving from doubt to hope involves a change of mindset. This may mean that old habits need to be stopped or that a new habit needs to be implemented. What mindsets do you need to change? How can you begin to harvest hope instead of doubt? Having a mind of abundant hope is intoxicating. Begin to live this way today!

Monday, June 11, 2007

Self confidence

I met an old friend yesterday while strolling at the city centre with Ruth and he asked me whether Ruth was my wife. I told on straight that when I marry her, I'll invite him to the ceremony! He had a good laugh. I think my self-confidence really rubs off to the people around me recently. Once a person has self-confidence, anything is possible. Marrying her is a big possibility, and it's definitely in my plan because Marie Callas said this year I would encounter something 'blissful'.

Believing in oneself and have firm faith in your own ability and traits. Of course that does not mean got to be stuck up. I'm never a stuck up person, but I guess my attitude towards life was wrong previously that's why things have remained mouldy all these years. Marie Callas has taught me to be different and confident in fact.

I'd like to mix more with people with self confidence that's the best way to improve oneself isn't it? Once your mind starts to focus on that, your thought will emit the signals and soon you'll get what you want.

Thursday, June 7, 2007

Yellow

Today I wish to write something about my favourite colour, yellow. Do you know that each colour has some meanings in spiritual terms? There is different meaning to each type of colour.

Yellow symbolises the capacity of human benigs to be lucid and aware. The vibrations of this bright shade support imagination, crreativity and mental development. It is also the symbol of the cosmic element of the air as well as the powers of concentration, knowledge, attraction and persuasion. Useful for performing rituals aimed at winning over an individual, egetting a job and achieving social status and detaching yourself from a place or a person.

Wednesday, June 6, 2007

New feel

Being free over the weekend, I took some hours to self-learn some simple html and css editing so that my blog is not that stagnating in feel. Now it looks more pleasing and appealing to the eyes, do you think so?

I think I really enjoy making my blog looks better. But one thing's for sure, remember to back up the previous set of files before it is being overwritten.

Pretty good for a 50 over man, ya?

Sunday, June 3, 2007

Next phase of life

Being bold, I 'm not ashamed to write here that my relationship with Ruth has become so well that I'm thinking of proposing to her. I'm not sure how her grown-up kids will feel to have a step father. Marie Callas has really predicted with fairly accurately result. She said I'd be meeting a lady and thinking of moving to the next phase of life with her.

Monday, May 28, 2007

Need clarity in life

Recently, I felt moody. Ought to be happy about the events and Ruth, however, the energy seems low all the time. It's as if I have been hit by a spell that makes me unaware of the spiritualness of myself. I think I may be suffering from some mild depression, hope not as I try to control myself from being negative. I just need to motivate myself and be cheerful about what life has given me so far. That will make me more sober I guess.