Give a smile

Things are not going that well last one week or so. We always get into disagreement. The congeniality that we had earlier seemed to have vanished. I guess the honeymoon period is truly over. Sometimes when things are not going that well, your mood sways up.

I read on a magazine that a simple tip to defuse such tension is to give a smile when things are going bad. You may think it is impossible but sit up (or stand up) shoulders back and smile. Watch the world change in front on you. What was bleak is not so bleak. In fact nothing is as bleak as you think it if, if you just smile. Try it. Give her a sincere apology and things will be back to normal again.

Sometime we guys just have to give way.

A Good Day

Have you ever wondered why sometimes everything in your life just flows beautifully, and sometimes, no matter what you do, nothing seems to fall into place?

So if your life at the moment is flowing beautifully, be SO grateful for every moment of it. If, however, you're having some challenges and frustrations, just remember that one day you will be looking back at this time thinking "if I only knew what wonderful surprises were waiting for me, just around the corner, I would have relaxed a little more, and enjoyed the journey".

Have peace and love..

Know what you want

Folks, one of the most important things to take care of is to be aware of what exactly you want to achieve. When you know what your dreams are, then you can focus your efforts so as to achieve them.

If your intellect desires one thing, and your heart another, then that quite simply produces internal conflict. In such a case there could be two contradictory intentions which are shaping the actions of a person. This produces procrastination, indecision, and ineffective action.

So got to establish the answer to what you really want, then you come up with goals which are in harmony with all your levels of being. And when you do that, you are ready to display a focussed intention. This allows for decisive, effective action, and thus for the most efficient attainment of your goal.

Be appreciative

I think this phrase 'thank you' has lost its appropriateness. People are not feeling appreciative or warm to the feel of it. It just that mundane thing to hear someone saying "thank you" to you sometimes.

Let me explain more.

Words are powerful stuff and when our words affirm what is good, what is right in our world, they solidify that goodness into reality. Do not underestimate the power of your spoken word. Worlds and universes are created from this magical process. Notice that in this realm, in our reality, we are the only known beings to transform thought into a spoken language.

So have more appreciation next time when someone does you a good deed. Reply with a big smiling thank you!

Sometimes we still have those thoughts

I admit I haven't posted in a while. Away from computer and net busy helping Ruth to settle into her new house. She just shifted to another rental unit as her previous tenant decided to sell the house, so she's got to move. Distance to her place is slightly further now, however, the positive side of me says that is okay as I got the time to walk further as a form of working out.

Always hoping that life would be better the next day, hoping that I'd be able to write something cheerful as time went by... But life sometimes has got both sides of the coin and that's inevitable. I just got to weigh it on the shoulder and look at life with optimism rather than angst.

Sometimes I wish I could just fall asleep and never wake up...I know it's bad but just can't help it. Luckily for me it's just a passing thought that goes away after a few minutes.

Happy with Marie Callas

I'm really pleased with Marie Callas prediction on my life in the next few months. She said I would be expecting big things in my life and some windfalls. Spiritually I can feel it coming in my bones and that is because I have been faithfully doing what she's taught me to do ever since I know Marie.

Come on, if you don't believe in me, it's ok! It's a choice whether you wish to read on. This is just a tribute to Marie Callas for her fantastic help to me. Faith is always important and if you don't have any faith, things won't work out for you no matter how promising they are.

Personal mentor

During school days, I used to study real hard for my exams, hoping that I can really score well and bring pride to myself and my mom. We were poor and many richer kids sort of look down on me and that makes me feel very bad somehow but my mom kept encouraging me. That's why I'm so grateful to her.

I remember well when I was studying for exams, on one hand, I was really motivated and kept on munching on the books and i told myself "I must get a good grade for this exam", but on the other hand, my little mind kept pulling me down by saying "I'm dumb, and I won't do well." So you know what's the outcome. I studied well enough however, the results turned out to be disappointing and I just managed to scrape through after two attempts. It was so sad then.

But now thanks for Marie Callas, I understand why.

People are not aware of this constant exercise in their mind to pull them down the water and they have no clue how to change it.

So I support the idea of having a personal mentor. That person must be someone more successful and knows what life is all about. The mentor can also be someone discerning, or even a book that tells you what the real deal in right mental approach. The whole purpose is to make your mind work for you instead of against you.